You may have seen last week, or maybe not because I forgot to pin the post, Medium has changed the way things work and that has me thinking about changing the way I work. At least on Tuesdays.
Now, at Medium, unless people clap or respond you don’t register engagement. Views no longer count.
But people have to sign up to do those things, and people often don’t want to. So this week, I’m trying out Chat Tuesday here.
We’ll see how that goes.
It’s always been tricky to do a blog post and a Chat Tuesday on the same day, and melding them into one may be just thing. Or it may not.
We’ll know by the bottom of this post. Let’s get to it, this is a lot of preamble.
The internet takes a vast, vast world and places us all in one room. Geography isn’t a barrier; the small circles in which we travel daily no longer mark the borders of our universes.
There is talk of “finding your people,” especially to those of us who don’t quite fit, who have odd corners and unvarnished surfaces, but in that space immediately outside our front doors, it’s not as easy as a tired cliche.
We can find our “almost people,” or “not bad people” or people willing to pass some time, but are they our people? Perhaps that answer changes over years.
But in the magic box sending communications zipping through the nothingness at speeds we heavy-atomed cannot travel, we can meet anyone, anywhere. Or pretty much anyone anywhere.
And the universe expands.
We can be not simply tolerated.
But enjoyed.
Not included for the sake of some kind of lingering guilt, but included because our virtual presence is welcomed. It’s a win for us weirdos.
It’s weighed on my mind lately, as I emerge from year after year of not great things. Sometimes I think we are all born with a lifetime limit of stress, and I feel like I hit mine long ago.
There are some things I cannot worry about. I don’t have the capacity anymore. And I no longer have the energy to force myself into grudging spaces.
My parts, at this point, are too brittle for that.
“Our people” may be scattered far and wide, and some of us may never share an analog space. But in this modern world, does that really matter? Is that what makes true friendship?
Or is it the meeting of minds, the meeting of ideas, a common view even from distant vantage points?
Because that’s what I have come to think, after all this thinking.
And in Tuesday Thoughts fashion, have a great Tuesday. This may work for me, how about you?